Lazy Lips

Lazy Lips

Assessing some statements we say without thinking I’ve had many confrontations with brothers and sisters in Christ. If we are “one anothering” well and in fellowship, it is inevitable. A wise pastor who I love dearly once said to me, “Keiko, we won’t all be...
Black People Law

Black People Law

As a Black person I have lived by a certain set of principles that have colored my life, behavior, and choices since I can remember. Principles such as (in no particular order): 1. Whatever happens in our house stays in our house. You don’t tell family secrets....
How To Spot A Nut Online

How To Spot A Nut Online

Dating online can be a minefield. Seriously. And anyone who has done it for any period of time can tell you their fair share of stories about crazy people online. Ok so that is what this blog post is about. What this blog post is not about is painting online dating as...
A Christian’s Perspective On: Whitesplaining

A Christian’s Perspective On: Whitesplaining

The word whitesplaining includes the ways and means that people use to make excuses for racist and/or prejudiced behavior. To be clear: one does not have to be white to participate in #whitesplaining, in my book. Naturally the mainstream definition of the term does...